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Thursday, November 27, 2003

Happy Thanksgiving, all. It's the best one for me in a while. Holidays are far more fun with a child in the household.

I'm over the worst of the labor--the pies are done and cooling on top of the refrigerator where the kitties can't check them out, the turkey is in the oven, the cranberry relish is in the fridge, sausage is cooking for a late breakfast. We'll be lucky to have dinner before three, but all that's left to be done is a salad, a batch of rolls and the sweet potatoes. I decided to forgo mashed potatoes, additional vegetables and the ubiquitous Bonnie's Pink Stuff (our family's version of jello salad, fruit cocktail, Cool Whip, etc.), with just three of us to feed. But I did make a pretty tablecloth out of a remnant I found at Walmart, and there's enough food to feed ten people, so I suppose we'll celebrate in traditional style.

Shelley is driving in rain through northern Kentucky, on the way to Minneapolis. I began our conversation this morning with details of what I had been cooking, the ingredients of the turkey dressing, and so forth, but she invited me politely to please shut up, as all she could look forward to was institutional turkey with canned gravy at a truck stop somewhere, and that only if she made good enough time through the rain to be able to take a real dinner break. When she gets to Minneapolis, however, she will be completely out of driving time and will have to be off the road for at least eight hours. So she will take some time off, she said, and visit the Mall of America, which happens to be conveniently near the receiver she's going to.

I've worried about her driving an 18-wheeler in foul weather, but she told me that she has opted "not to use chains," which means the company can't deliberately send her into conditions where chains would be necessary. I didn't realize she had that choice, and of course, it doesn't prevent her from getting caught in unexpected snow and ice, as has already happened. But without the chains, she can get off the road, telling her dispatcher that the conditions aren't safe. I suppose that at some point, she could do that anyway, but she can do it in much less severe weather if she doesn't have chains on the truck. She didn't want to push her luck, she said, in her first winter on the road, with no more experience than she has so far.

Kate is celebrating Thanksgiving with a crowd of old friends, gay guys she has known for twenty years or more. I envy her the houseful of people, the jangle of multiple conversations, the Macy's parade on television in the background, the smiling faces around the table. But I think I'll have enough to do this year with just Nick and Clarence to feed, and perhaps it won't be long before Kate and I can host that crowd in our own home.

Back to basting the turkey, and it's time to start the rolls.

Hope everyone is having as nice a day as I.
posted by Liz @ 10:24 AM     |


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