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Saturday, February 21, 2004

Hmm, this is interesting. I followed back the link on Bark Bark Woof Woof to the Washington Post article about William H. Pryor's appointment to a federal appeals court. Way down there at the bottom, the article says that in a brief before the Supreme Court, Pryor argued that "if a law in Texas outlawing sex between homosexuals was overturned, it would open the way for legalized prostitution, adultery, necrophilia, bestiality, possession of child pornography and even incest and pedophilia."

I guess we know where he stands on same-sex marriage.

People toss around the term "homophobia" as though it just meant a strong objection to homosexual behavior. We need to remember what the "phobia" part of the word means. Merriam-Webster says that a phobia is "an exaggerated, usually inexplicable, and illogical fear of a particular object, class of objects, or situation." Using that definition, I would argue that William H. Pryor is suffering from a phobia that makes him unable to render a fair decision in any case where homosexuality is involved. If his phobia was one of religious belief, or race, or ethnic origin, no one would appoint him to the bench. Why is his fear of homosexuals not sufficient reason to bar him from a federal judicial position?

Because a lot of other people are scared silly too?

Come on, folk, just what is it about ME that has you in such a state of abject terror? This is getting personal. I want to know how I threaten the stability of society, the future of our families, the integrity of our nation, the very fabric of space and time?

Yes, some homosexuals engage in behaviors that no one could condone. So do some heterosexuals. They're all wrong, regardless of their sexual orientation. The rest of us just go along trying to do our jobs, keeping a roof over our heads and food on the table, raising our children if we have them, and remembering to take the garbage out. We're so damned ordinary that you don't even know who most of us are, and if you did know, that wouldn't change the dynamic between you and us unless you wanted it to.

This rant is totally useless, I realize. It's just a way to unload feelings I've had for a very long time. It isn't going to change anyone's mind. I'll get over the shouting and go back to being reasonable soon. When I don't have to stay in the closet to keep my business in business. When I don't have to refer to Kate as "my friend." When I can use my own name here without worrying about my safety. When hell freezes over, I guess.
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