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This site is a member of WebRing. To browse visit here. Friday, February 13, 2004 Kate called to tell me that two long-time male friends of hers, who live now in San Francisco, were married yesterday. Congratulations! I'll bet they weren't much more than second in line after Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin. Here's an excerpt from an AP story: In a political and legal challenge to California law, city authorities officiated at the marriage of a lesbian couple Thursday and said they will issue more gay marriage licenses. The act of civil disobedience was coordinated by Mayor Gavin Newsom and top city officials and was intended to beat a conservative group to the punch. The group, Campaign for California Families, had planned to go to court on Friday to get an injunction preventing the city from issuing marriage licenses to gay couples. Longtime lesbian activists Phyllis Lyon, 79, and Del Martin, 83, were married just before noon by City Assessor Mabel Teng in a closed-door civil ceremony at City Hall, mayor's spokesman Peter Ragone said. The two have been a couple for 51 years. Ragone said that beginning at noon, officials would begin issuing marriage licenses to any gay couples applying for one.How fitting that Phyllis and Del should have been the first. Their book, Lesbian Women, published in 1972, was a groundbreaking account of what it meant to realize you were lesbian, and how that knowledge affected your life. I found the book about five years later, at a point when I had to come to terms with my own orientation, and it was invaluable to me. For some odd reason, it meant something to me that they weren't just two refugees from the hippie decade--they were nearly my own mother's age. When I read the book, they were already celebrating their 25th anniversary together. I was brought up to respect my elders, and here were two women I could both identify with and respect, and hold up as an ideal. Nothing could be more appropriate than for the first same-sex marriage in the US to celebrate the love of Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin. Congratulations to them, and to Kate's friends, to everyone else who gets in there before an injunction is issued (if it is), and well-earned congratulations to the city of San Francisco for having the courage to do this. posted by Liz @ 12:49 PM | The template is set to display 10 posts. To see all the posts for this month, click on the month name in the Archive section RSS Feed PERSONAL Send email toliz at life-as-a-spectator-sport.com Home I'm a mother, grandmother, a computer professional, Democrat, Christian. 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Kate called to tell me that two long-time male friends of hers, who live now in San Francisco, were married yesterday. Congratulations! I'll bet they weren't much more than second in line after Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin. Here's an excerpt from an AP story: In a political and legal challenge to California law, city authorities officiated at the marriage of a lesbian couple Thursday and said they will issue more gay marriage licenses. The act of civil disobedience was coordinated by Mayor Gavin Newsom and top city officials and was intended to beat a conservative group to the punch. The group, Campaign for California Families, had planned to go to court on Friday to get an injunction preventing the city from issuing marriage licenses to gay couples. Longtime lesbian activists Phyllis Lyon, 79, and Del Martin, 83, were married just before noon by City Assessor Mabel Teng in a closed-door civil ceremony at City Hall, mayor's spokesman Peter Ragone said. The two have been a couple for 51 years. Ragone said that beginning at noon, officials would begin issuing marriage licenses to any gay couples applying for one.How fitting that Phyllis and Del should have been the first. Their book, Lesbian Women, published in 1972, was a groundbreaking account of what it meant to realize you were lesbian, and how that knowledge affected your life. I found the book about five years later, at a point when I had to come to terms with my own orientation, and it was invaluable to me. For some odd reason, it meant something to me that they weren't just two refugees from the hippie decade--they were nearly my own mother's age. When I read the book, they were already celebrating their 25th anniversary together. I was brought up to respect my elders, and here were two women I could both identify with and respect, and hold up as an ideal. Nothing could be more appropriate than for the first same-sex marriage in the US to celebrate the love of Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin. Congratulations to them, and to Kate's friends, to everyone else who gets in there before an injunction is issued (if it is), and well-earned congratulations to the city of San Francisco for having the courage to do this.
In a political and legal challenge to California law, city authorities officiated at the marriage of a lesbian couple Thursday and said they will issue more gay marriage licenses. The act of civil disobedience was coordinated by Mayor Gavin Newsom and top city officials and was intended to beat a conservative group to the punch. The group, Campaign for California Families, had planned to go to court on Friday to get an injunction preventing the city from issuing marriage licenses to gay couples. Longtime lesbian activists Phyllis Lyon, 79, and Del Martin, 83, were married just before noon by City Assessor Mabel Teng in a closed-door civil ceremony at City Hall, mayor's spokesman Peter Ragone said. The two have been a couple for 51 years. Ragone said that beginning at noon, officials would begin issuing marriage licenses to any gay couples applying for one.
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