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Sunday, July 09, 2006

Whine, bitch, moan . . .

I think I'm finally getting burned out in this job. I'm tired of hearing, "Are you inspecting all the stores in town, or just mine?" I'm really tired of being screeched at by store owners who don't think I should be taking pictures of certain things. I used to provide all kinds of explanation about the inspection interval, or why I had to take pictures of the gas pumps, the alcohol and the hot food, as well as the grocery items. No more. I just say, "No, I'm not going to all the stores, and I don't know why I was sent to yours." Or, "I'm sorry, but I do have to take pictures of these items." I'm not rude, but I'm not as extensively helpful as I used to be. I'm just tired.

And every time I think I've seen it all, something new crops up. The latest is the customer who demands to know why I'm there. My personal opinion is that customers ought to keep their noses out of the store owners' business, especially when it comes to conversations with representatives of the government. But lately, I've had several encounters with customers who either demanded to know what I was doing there, or ordered the store owner not to sign the consent form until the customer had read it. Excuse me? You want to make decisions in this store? You buy it and run it then. Leave the store owner alone--he or she has enough hassle as it is without you butting in. But of course I can't say that.

The heat and the hours away from home while weeds and critters overtake my garden probably has something to do with my feeling, but I do have some sense that things are about to change. I enjoy the work itself. It's easy, it has allowed me to see parts of Virginia and West Virginia that I would never have visited otherwise, and I've met some wonderful people. But the peripheral hassles are beginning to get to me, and my profit margin has gone down drastically. Gas, of course, has always been my largest expense, but now there is the domestic help I have to provide for Clarence when I'm gone. She is extremely reasonable, but seven days away from home starts to add up.

And as anyone who travels for a living knows, there are all those problems that ordinary people take care of on a daily basis that have to be handled on the one or two days one manages to be home. I have a long and growing list: deposit my contract check, run to the vet's office for flea stuff for the dog and cat, do the grocery shopping for the coming week so Patricia, my helper, will have something to cook for Clarence, check to make sure he has enough insulin and make a note to call the drug store and have them deliver more. Pick all the ripe cherry tomatoes and spray "Liquid Fence" on the beans before the deer eat them all. Buy a new toner cartridge for the printer. Wash all my dirty clothes and pray the weather stays nice so they will dry by tonight. The satellite internet has gotten extremely slow during the morning, which tells me there is a storm brewing somewhere. Speaking of the satellite internet, I have to call the provider and demand to know why the bloody hell they charged my credit card twice this month. Etc.

On the other hand, I've sure done a lot less housework lately, and a lot less personal care of Clarence. Patricia doesn't seem to mind anything he asks her to do, and has taken it on herself to vacuum, do his laundry and mop the kitchen--things I never asked her to do. I can't describe how wonderful it is to come home and find the house clean, Clarence in a good mood, food and water in the pets' dishes and no ants on the counters eating the crumbs that Clarence leaves when he fixes things.

So maybe I'll hold out a while longer.
posted by Liz @ 7:16 AM     |


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