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Wednesday, May 30, 2007

To Michigan and back

Not sure what to post about the trip to Michigan. In one respect, it worked out well for me, but as a vacation it lacked a lot.

Clarence ended up in the hospital again, and will almost certainly have to be hospitalized again here before long. He has a deep closed ulcer on one foot, which is bad bad news for a diabetic. It produced a blister the size of a hen's egg, which is why we found ourselves in the emergency room in Lansing at 10pm last Thursday night. The hospital admitted him, started him on IV antibiotics, removed most of the blister and then--apparently without asking him about it--scheduled him for transfer to a local acute care facility for long term wound care and antibiotics.

We learned about this when I tried to track down the staff doctor who had seen him. When I told Clarence what was going on, he flatly refused to cooperate and demanded to be discharged immediately. I can't say that I blame him, but the problem is still there, I can't get an appointment with his regular doctor at all right now, and can't get an appointment with a podiatrist for at least a week. I suspect that before then, we'll be back in the emergency room.

Clarence just isn't taking in the gravity of the problem. He can barely stand up on two feet, but we do manage to deal with public bathrooms one way or another. He can't do it at all as an amputee. So he would have to go into a nursing home. In some ways, that would make life easier for me, but his pension covers most of our living expenses right now. A nursing home would take the pension and leave me dependent solely on my income. I could handle that, but life would certainly be more financially stressful than it is now.

In addition to running back and forth between the con and the hospital, I had to deal with a screwed up hotel reservation. Because I didn't get to the hotel until after 3am, their system kicked my reservation out, according to them (this despite the fact that I called them to say we'd be coming in very late). The desk clerk finally managed to reinstate the reservation, but it was somehow changed to only one day instead of four. So that evening when I returned, my key didn't work. Fifteen minutes of arguing with a different desk clerk finally got me a room again, and I thought everything was set. Nope. Next day it happened again. And again. I would have fired off indignant emails to the Choice Hotels customer service people except that when Clarence was finally out of the hospital, he got up early without waking me, tried to walk to the bathroom by himself, and landed on his rear on the floor. I called the desk to see if there was a maintenance or security person on the premises, and she sent a huge guy with trees for arms, who picked Clarence up and deposited him on the bed like he weighed 25 pounds instead of 250. I couldn't very well complain about the reservation screw-ups after that.

So we're finally back home. My house is an unbelievable mess because I just hauled everything in from the car and left it in the middle of the living room. Everything I own needs to be washed, and tomorrow we have to go back out for an overnight trip to southwest Virginia. Shelley wants to borrow money, Nick wants me to work on his computer, and one of my computer customers is leaving increasingly urgent messages on my voice mail.

I really need a vacation, sans Clarence, and it isn't gonna happen any time soon.
posted by Liz @ 8:52 AM     |


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